How To Speak
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You have your own set of skills and knowledge, which you collect over time from the education system or through experiencing life. It’s also essential to learn to pass it to other people effectively, no one should go out into life without the ability to communicate. Your success in life is primarily determined by:
- Your ability to speak.
- Your ability to write.
- The quality of your ideas.
This formula determines the quality of communication. Knowledge contributes the most to it, so you can get a lot better than people who may have the inherent talent if you have the right amount of knowledge.
$$ Q_{uality} = f( 5k_{nowledge} , 3p_{ractice} , 2t_{alent} ) $$
How To Start
1. Don’t Start with a joke.
As people are still getting adjusted to your way of speaking, they might not be ready for a joke.
2. Start with an empowerment promise.
Tell people what they are going to know by the end of the talk. Show the result they are going to get and then talk about the process.
Samples
Circle
It’s a good idea to repeat the subject or critical idea multiple times; tell it at the beginning, middle, and in the end. There are many reasons for it; the main one is that at any given point, 20% of the people won’t be paying attention.
Build fence
Many times your idea might be similar, but you must clear it to the audience to not confuse it with other ideas, tell them how it is different.
Verbal Punctuation
People fog out fast, and it’s helpful to provide a landmark to get them back, you can use an index or outline.
Question
It is the right way of engaging the audience or getting back their attention. However, the question needs to be carefully chosen:
If it’s too apparent –> People can find it embarrassing to answer.
If it’s too hard –> Nobody will have anything to say.
The Tools
Time & Place
It is crucial to make sure that the time of the talk or lecture is not right after a meal. The place should be well lit, or people might feel sleepy. If possible, visit the place before the talk, so if there is any weirdness, you can deal with it. Also, make sure that the place is of appropriate capacity and populated enough, otherwise, it might not look like an interesting talk.
Boards
If the purpose is informing, boards should be preferred. Reason for that is:
- It has the graphic quality, and It’s easy to add or draw graphics on the fly.
- Speed of writing on board is the right amount of speed with which people can learn.
- It’s easy to point at something using your hands.
Slides
- Use large fonts, don’t use too many words and slides.
- To be in the audience’s line of vision, stand near slides and be in the image.
- Don’t read out the slides and keep graphics simple.
- Eliminate clusters: remove the page title and read it out instead.
- Don’t use laser. (Use graphic pointer)
- Give time people to read; we have only one language processor.
- Hapax legomenon: you can get away with too much content on slide exactly once in your presentation. It can be the main slide.
Props
Makes the talk more memorable and makes ideas more visual.
Informing
When the case is to inform, you want to start with a promise.
Inspire
When you want to inspire people you should
- Tell them they can do it.
- Help them see a problem from a different perspective.
- Exhibit passion about what you are doing.
How to think
One of the most important purposes is to teach people how to think. Provide them with
- The stories they need to know.
- The questions they need to ask about those stories.
- Mechanisms for analyzing those stories.
- Ways of putting stories together.
- Ways of evaluating how true a story is.
Persuading
You need to speak to persuade someone or your audience, you should practice with people who are not familiar with the topic you are talking about, and probably ask them to be very rational and critical.
“If you can’t make me cry, I won’t value you as a friend” - Patrick Winston
Job Talks
When you are in a job interview or giving a job talk, you need to have following things checked:
- Vision: Talk about the problem you care about, talk about the approach you have to solve that problem.
- Done Something: Show what you have done in the past to solve that or related problem, or talk about the steps you have in mind to tackle it.
- Contribution: End the talk with your contributions towards the vision.
Getting Famous
The first thing you might wonder is, why care about getting famous?
“You get used to being famous, but you never get used to being ignored.”
If you treat your ideas like children, you don’t want them to go into the world of rags. So you have these techniques on how to present ideas that they’re recognized for the value that is in them.
- Symbol: Your work should have a symbol that can represent it.
- Slogan: Phrase that provides a handle on the work.
- Surprise: It should have something new or out of the box.
- Salient: If not important, it should be different, that stands out.
- Story: Talk about how you did it, how it works, why it’s important.
How to Stop
Final Slide
You have many options for your last slide, but you need to add a slide that does something for you and have some value, as it’s going to be up for at least 5 - 10 minutes. It should be about your contributions towards that topic or idea; it will work for you.
The final slide should not be:
- Collaborators
- Conclusion
- Questions
- More details link
- The end
Final Words
If you end it well, all is well. You can end it with a joke, which makes people feel they had fun all this while.
Don’t end with thank you, as it suggests that everybody has stayed that long out of politeness. End with a salute, like appreciate the audience for their time and interest.
Acknowledgement
This blog is a collection of my notes from a lecture on How To Speak by Professor Patrick Henry Winston, MIT. He passed away in 2019, and I am writing this blog in his memory.
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